Mustang, you are wise to cut your strings with the nephew. I think you're fortunate that he hasn't stolen form you yet, or done something harmful to you so he can support his drug habit. It's time to say no!

As far as they way you are treated by family, I think it's because they are jealous of you. You know right from wrong, and somehow, they don't. Their personalities sound destructive and negative, and who needs that? It's okay to begin distnacing yourself for the sake of your won sanity.

And I think there's nothing wrong with speaking your mind to them either. If they question you, share your thoughts and walk away. Often friends make better family. If I were you, I'd begin putting my efforts towards my friends who appreciate you. We alwyas need people in our lives, but they don't have to be family, especially if they're verbally abusive and drag you down.

Please feel the love and support of your fellow boomer women friends who know your heart and want it protected!