Well ladies, you have taken the wind out of my sail, so to speak. I will try the kind method. I agree; it brings one the furthest.

I wrote an email to my Dil/"A" today.

Hello sweet "A",

Daddy told me that you are going to Kindergarden ! That’s wonderful, and I am sure you will have so much fun and make many friends!

Oma and Opa miss and love you sooo much ! Say hi to your mommy and daddy from us too ! And if your mommy thinks it is allright, maybe you can give us a call and tell us about Kindergarden.


I sent this this morning. If I don't get an answer or call by tomorrow, then I really know where I 'm at.

I took you up on your advice, MA and went sailing today. Infact we found it very relaxing not to worry about "A" jumping around the boat or leaning out too far.

I agree Jabber, "all these ladies give excellent advice."

Eagle your posts get under the skin and are so wise. Interesingt that you had a similiar experience, and the kindness method worked. Thank you for your comforting words as well, AdornmentsMilan. It's very special getting to know you.

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