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#157548 - 08/25/08 03:57 PM
Re: I may need help from you all...
[Re: jabber]
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#157580 - 08/25/08 07:44 PM
Re: I may need help from you all...
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Gims, thanks for the wonderful complement near the end of you post. It means alot. Hope things are at least stable today.
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#157599 - 08/25/08 10:16 PM
Re: I may need help from you all...
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gims high fiving greene...
Well, you may not believe this ---- they may be sending Daddy home tomorrow. I've not been told what this means exactly. I thought they'd keep him so he could remain comfortable. More when I find out. My nurse sister, who came in from FL, spent the evening with him, so maybe she'll get the full scoop - something only two or three of the eight of us children have been privy to (their doing), thus far.
Me - you may not believe this either, but then maybe you will - I got through three (3, get that? 3!) phone calls today, ones that would normally send me into my fetal curl. I processed them well. I give each and all of you full credit for that. mmmmmmmmwwhaaaa! smack, smack, smack...xoxoxoxoxoxoxo!!!!!
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#157604 - 08/25/08 10:40 PM
Re: I may need help from you all...
[Re: gims]
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Hey, Gims, I am happy to hear that YOU are able to process in a crisis. (I hope you are not like me. I take months, or even years, or a whole decade to process.) I SO understand what you are saying. Bravo! I REALLY know what a milestone this is for you. There must have been some improvement in your father's condition. I am glad that you are able to gain your own perspective from the insights and the amount of caring and sharing via BWS. I did not realize that there are 8 children, or I knew it and it slipped my mind. That is a number of personalities to maneaver (sp?) Gims, standing strong. L, PL
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#157612 - 08/25/08 11:20 PM
Re: I may need help from you all...
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mmmmmmmmwwhaaaa! smack, smack, smack...xoxoxoxoxoxoxo!!!!! back at ya!
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#157642 - 08/26/08 07:49 AM
Re: I may need help from you all...
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Gims
I'm glad you got the hugs...for some reason, I'm especially drawn to giving, and receiving, them and have been since I was a little one.
I don't have the details of your particular situation and do know the comfort and challenge of retreating into a place where there is no one else to deal with. I spent a long time living in retreat...coming out into the world because I had a son who needed me and, even then, finding solace only in 1 room of my own home.
Whether it takes a moment, a day, a year or a million years, you are doing exactly what you need to do to support where you are right now. Dealing with family dynamics never seems to be an easy task (I spent 8 years being shunned by my dad and the angst it caused the family was enormous). Your ability to reach out to this group and share is a phenomenal gift to all of us and I know you are touching so many hearts and souls by your courage and openness.
Your response to those 3 calls is nothing short of amazing...wow, huge kudos flying through the keyboard to you. That is an amazing feat, especially given where you are on this leg of your journey!
mmmmmmmmwwhaaaa! smack, smack, smack...xoxoxoxoxoxoxo!!!!!
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#157944 - 08/28/08 04:32 PM
Re: I may need help from you all...
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As a journal entry (I gave up true journaling after just a few)... My dad still hasn't been released. They are working to see if they can stabilize him with meds. He will be bedridden once home, too frail to get up as he use to. He is experiencing pulmonary aspiration, which I understand can result in aspiration pneumonia... he worked in construction before going full time into the ministry, so there's no telling what he was exposed to... he has COPD, also. No one, not even him, will agree to detach the defib... the next jolt may cause more pain than he can handle. BUT, according to the nurse, today, he might outlive my mom - he seems to have the necessary will to live, she is willing herself to die. What are we going to be like when we are on the top rung?
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#157965 - 08/28/08 11:03 PM
Re: I may need help from you all...
[Re: gims]
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Gims, can you please tell me what you mean by "on the top rung?" Do you mean on the top rung of the aging thing? Mama, I'm sorry to hear that you were "shunned" by your father for a period of time. Gims, he's going home. Nothing worse than being sick, frail, scared, and hospitalized. L, Pl
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