Dolphin, I really think you are right. My ex was the same way, and the SO is too. With the SO, Dan...he goes to the VFW, does his thing (programs the marquee for upcoming events), shoots the wind and yaps with his pals, has a couple of beers, goes home. End of story, nothing exciting. If asked "well what did you and Ben (or whoever) talk about?" the answer is usually: motorcycles, compare who drinks what beer, who hit that homerun or some nonsense about the upcoming Ohio State football season. That's it!!

Guys I think do live incredibly in the moment. They just don't have that "worry" factor we do about relationships and who's doing what!