If you hear what women discuss in the gyna/urology ward the night vists can be frequent.
Often lack of sleep due to this can wear a woman down.

I believe it depends on several factors.
Weight...childbirth..hysterectomy.Lifting heavy weights.
menopause.hormones decreasing Urine infection.
I mistakenly believed having a hysterectomy that "everything" would be tided up therafter...Ha ha!!
Prolapse (rectrocele and cystocele).can happen after hyster. Both conditions can cause bladder disturbance.

Given the ages of the women on the forum I have wondered why this discussion has not been raised before.(that I can recall)This leads me to believe childbirth experience varies by nation.Also tecnique during gynae operations.And the fact that few consultants are women.Certainly more than one generation ago.
I sought a female consultant so can compare.
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"Go potty"...here that would mean to go mad...