Bekya, it sounds as though your husband wants his cake at to eat it too. After all this time has passed with no solution in site, maybe it is time to make a move towards finalizing the separtion. No man that loves his wife would be estranged from her for so long, no man. You have found God and that is good but you also deserve the love of a good man or at leas the freedom to pursue another form of happiness. Just my opinioin. You can be civil for the girls if you want to be but this is not teaching them to be strong, healthy women in their relationships to come.

[ August 26, 2005, 01:04 AM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]