Hi Bekya: I am glad you joined BWS- I am sorry for your pain in this situation. Marriage difficulties are always painful and affect all lives involved tremendously.

But I agree with Dianne and others regarding lack of info on our side.

One important issue is that the parents refrain from defaming each other or trying for the kids to take sides, etc. It is important that kids are able to maintain a healthy relationship with both parents. They are the most affected parties in marital conflicts.

Your closer relationship with the Lord is the best source for wisdom and strength. Friends are a great support group too and so is BWS.

If you wish to share more info, please feel free to do so.
I hope you find comfort in knowing that I will be praying for you and yours.