Actually I was talking from observation, mostly: the stepchildren that snatch and grab everything their stepmom and dad have worked a lifetime to acquire. I've seen distant family members with that attitude of what's yours is mine, because it's your fault I was born in the first place. My adoptive folks' had nothing to do with that statement. Sorry! Didn't mean to confuse anyone. I have nothing but the deepest respect for adoptive parents!
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