I think the word, sweetheart, is JERK. I think this is the JERK generation. How rude of him. All I can say is I hope Anaiya is okay and that she made it miserable for her dad to enjoy himself playing golf. I think when we as parents become too wounded we hope their behavior can be explained away by some mental disorder instead of what is probably is...rudeness, selfishness, just being a jerk. The only cure is maturity? I feel so badly for you...good grief, after all you've done for him and to have him treat you like this is just plain selfishness. There's no appreciation for anything we do for our kids these days. I hope you do give him an attitude check for speaking to you the way he did...you did not deserve that. Offering advice is no reason to be treated like that...what the heck is going on with this generation of kids? I don't get it...and am at a loss of words, too. My heart goes out to you darlin'.