Chattylady..I am going to sound like a total jerk here..but I LOVE your spirit..and your clear thinking..and your sense of humor. I am serious. Please just tell me..I am a psychologist by education and thought, I guess..so I just wonder..we read in so many different forms that we must be able to forgive to be FREE, etc etc. What do you think about that concept??? I am serious here. I can SOOO identify with what you are saying..and yet, I am stopped by all this that I read..about forgiving and loving, etc etc. I don´t think I´d expect anyone to love me if I had abused anyone sexually..now that I think of it..

You seem to be free of so much junk that I am carrying along the way all the time..thought junk or whatever..so tell me..what´s your secret???

HUUUUGS!!!