Humlan, I will say one thing to what you've said. Women are or can be just as guilty as the next one...if guilty is even a good word to use here, maybe not. I, too, know a lot of very good men who have been horribly abused in one form or another by women. As part of the human race, both sexes have choices and they're not always good ones.
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