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I don't agree either but from a single person's point of view it depends where and how you meet them.

There are many men out there that only want one thing. There are also men who are looking for a nice relationship but they are not easy to find.

To find the not so great ones, just go to the single sites and you will see lots of men over 50 who want 30 somethings or under even. They look at the internet like a candy store.

Have you ever looked at the women looking for men area though? I did and I have never seen so many woman dressed really provocative. It blew me away. Half naked some of them. So, it's not only the men.

There are some decent guys out there but they are hiding. They are not on single sites or going to single dances because they are not desperate. I think the best way to meet a decent guy is through friends or doing some activity you love.

I have been on my own for 12 years now, am currently dating someone from my past but.....I have not met many men over the years. The good ones are either taken or really hard to find.
Kate



I would tend to agree that it's safer at least to start with what Kate just suggested " I think the best way to meet a decent guy is through friends or doing some activity you love."

It actually puzzles me abit why people go to bars and dance clubs in hopes to meet the love of their life. I was never comfortable in those situations and for the most part, avoided such places unless I went with a group of friends to expressly have fun --without any intention of meeting someone new.

Sometimes... In some of sports related activities and volunteer organizations, one can meet some people where at least you and guy share a passion...interest..if your relationship doesn't get off the ground any further than friendship.

I do know a number of single guys in their 40's and up who are cyclists. These guys don't do drugs, alcohol..etc. and they give back to their community. Many of these guys are conscious about what they eat, they cook their own meals because they want to stay healthy, etc. So it depends, where you meet people....

2 of my sisters, each met their hubby via running clubs..

Rethink about your own health, and try something different to improve your health long-term..and it will bring you to new circle of friends who have similar lifestyles and values.

but yea, this is easier said than done. There is abit of incredible luck and blessing to meet the right love of your life, that you can trust wholeheartedly and for long-term.

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