For what it's worth, I am not like that. I dress conservatively. I do not go to singles sites or dances, and I am not desperate.

The men I've met have been through doing activities that I love. And still they have all been "like that." Maybe because they've been conditioned to think that's what women want, who knows.

Please know I mean what I'm about to say with disrespect whatsoever. But those of you who have been married forever to the same man are VERY lucky. I pray that you never have to find out what it is like being single these days, because then you may truly understand what I'm talking about.

It is frustrating. And people wonder why I seem so much happier being alone.

Whirlwind