Yep, they are all pigs when it comes to this.

I saw someone the other night, in town for a seminar we were both attending. We met a year ago at a similar event and had dinner as well. Like the first time, he wanted to "get busy" after dinner and I went home. Since this is a rare someone that I feel I could really like, I sent him an email after the weekend was over, saying that I wasn't a one-night-stand kind of girl, but did feel an attraction with him. And if he felt the same maybe we could get to know each other better. (After all, if I'd been him, after the way the evening ended, I'd have thought there was no interest on my part. I figure men aren't mind readers, so I'd lay the cards on the table in plain English).

I haven't heard back from him, so there's my answer. I was good enough for a roll in the hay (had I been interested), but not for anything else.

I don't date much at all, and this is the reason. Are there ANY good ones out there, or should I just give up? I've got to admit, I'm about ready to say to heck with it and just have some fun. That "would" have been a night to remember had I gone through with it.

Sigh...

Whirlwind