The thing is, AIDS wasn't an issue when some of us were young. I had never heard of it, until Rock Hudson got the stupid stuff. If you're friends with someone, that's a different issue. And I understand not wanting to get financially tied-up. But that survey asked about jumping into bed with somebody the 1st time you met. That's what's scary, to me anyhow. Like O'Reilly says, "I could be wrong". But these days, hitting on strangers, freaks me out!!!!