I am so fortunate in that my partner is a huge help around the house. Since I am now working full time and taking classes, (he stays home and is remodeling our house) he does almost all of the vacuuming, cleaning, and all the cooking. In addition to the cooking, he cleans up after himself and loads and runs the dishwasher. He also has been known to do laundry, although that is usually my bailiwick. He's kinda cute because when he does do laundry, he calls me at work for directions! My responsibilities are to feed the creatures and give all of them their medicines, although he can do that, too, as long as I leave written instructions. Did I mention how fortunate I am??

His cleaning isn't up to my standards, but I let it go. He makes the effort, without being nagged, and that's good enough for me. Life is too short to fret over the little things.

Both my sons were taught to clean, cook, and do simple sewing, like re-attaching buttons. Oh, and iron, too. My daughters-in-law have told me how appreciative they are that both boys can do their share.