orchid, I know women who did nothing but complain about the way their husbands did things. Since they couldn't do them the way they wanted it done, they stopped asking. I think we have to give a little and not expect others to do things precisely the way we do. It helps.

gimster, love that gratitude entry!

ladyjane, whatever works, as long as no one feels like they have to do it all. That's where the resentment comes in.
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