Well I am proud to say my son David works a full time very tiring, strenous job and comes home, starts dinner, throws a load or two in the washer/dryer, then he takes care of the dogs and cleans any mess they may have made.

He is a neat nut. He scrubs the bathtubs and washes down the tiles and the kitchen floors. My DIL works full time too and does all the shopping on the weekend but my David pretty much takes care of the house. He has learned from me to cook, and is a better cook than she is. They seem to have the perfect union and he dares any of his motorcycle club to make fun of his housekeeping duties. He isn't the size or kind of man most men want to tangle with. So even the forty something men can be a help if they want to be.

My ex was a better shopper than me, he used coupons and shopped the sales etc. I guess everyone has to be good at something...

Ever heard this joke?? In the eye of he beholder....

Mrs. Danellie and Mrs. Franko were playing bunco and Mrs. Fritz asked them how each of their children were who had just gotten married?

Mrs Danellie says, "Oh my Gina is so lucky she relaxes at home all day and her husband is so good to her, he does the shopping after work, comes home and fixes her dinner, he washes floors to help her and he is the best husband anyone could want. She is so lucky."

Then Mrs. Franco spoke up saying, "Oh my poor Antonio, he has married a witch. She lays around the house all day doing nothing. If he wants to eat he has to go shopping after work and then come home and cook the meal. She even expects my poor son to scrub her dirty floors. He has ruined his life, my poor boy...

You see it is all in the eye of the beholder (or mamma.) LOL