Princess, my heart goes out to you. Even though my mom can't speak, we can still communicate. And, yes, my dad is still well in his noodle, and he is at home. One of my sisters lives there with him, and one of my brothers is there pretty regular to take care of the maintenance chores. My dad is pretty much confined to his recliner, bed and makes short trips to his computer. He still sends out newsletters for his ministry and communicates through emails to all of his ministry loyals. Mother, on the other hand, is in a facility - not because I want her there. Can't go into it here. She's having a horrible go of it, which infuriates me. My hands are tied. I cannot legally do anything, unless I want to take full financial and care-giving responsibilities on myself. At this time, I'm not able to do it.