Dear Ann, I just want to say how my heart goes out to you. You have been carrying this burden stoically, and with incredible élan. You are quite a special lady; I just had to tell you that.

I wish I could give you good advice, but my knowledge is limited, since I don't live in the States anymore.

There just have to be social services to help families out in this situation. I'm sure you have asked your doctor. What about going to the town hall for information? What about social workers? Or contacting social security directly?

My best wishes and prayers will be accompanying you, and hopefully you'll find good help for you and Dennis very soon. Please let us know.

Here's sending you lots and lots of hugs and positive vibes. Lean your head on our shoulders. You are a much-loved dear friend here.
Hannelore