Thanks JJ and everyone else. You know, I have been exhausted so not much on the 'puter, sorry, but great to get back and find these supportive comments. I am now off to meet my Mum and a girlfriend for lunch. I am going to walk up the street, cross over the river on a ferry (because I can only walk so far in my high heeled boots) and I am going to be extra nice to my Mum. Then Mum is going her way, my girlfriend and I are meeting our husbands for tea and then coming home, what a BIG day, now I am off to shower, makeup and go!!!!!!