I just discoverd the link you posted here. Thank you so very much Dotsie. I take care of my 85 year old Mom. The link was like medicine for me. I often need strength and loads of patience. I love her so much, but it seems sometimes like a bottomless bucket. I just can't give enough. She often forgets the things I do for her. In addition my husband thinks I spend too much time with her. Sometimes I wish I were cloned. My brother is in the states, so I don't get any help from siblings. I sent him the link. I bet it will make him fly over to visit our mother. I hope so.