Anno, since I was not a regular for a while due to travelling to care for my mom several times, I did not realize what you were going through with your parents. Or maybe I knew and it went over my head. But today it really entered my heart. Your mother has ALZ? I found that my stepfather (Dad) has a real hard time understanding that my mom has ALZ. He still says she has "selective memory" but the fact is her memory comes and goes. He is caring for her, cooking for her, and taking her to DR appointments. He has partial blindness. I am surprised he can still have a driver's license. I do think we could have more multi-generational living arrangements.