I don't think I can predict how I would feel. If I could not take care of myself, was afraid of falling or injuring myself and my greatest fear was that of not getting help, I might want to go to an assisted living apartment, but not a nursing home -- well, I'm picturing those in the past.

Hannelore, my family got together yesterday to celebrate my birthday and my daughter-in-laws, as well. All of us noticed that my mother could not or was afraid to walk along the pier with us. My mother-in-law did'nt want to walk, either. We all had a "light bulb moment."

So, as much as I am able to, I can emphathize with your current situation. I believe that your wonderful sense of humor will help with this life transition.

JawJaw, I loved that picture and the whole idea of vacationing together!

Blessings to all,
Emily