Good luck. You claimed you went to church...did you ever consider advertising via your church?

Having separate entrances is best arrangement. But it doesn't sound like it if you are concerned about loss of your privacy.

I would be tend be happiest to live in a shack NEAR people instead of share with a stranger -female or male. It's just me... I trust only friends I know in advance to share living accommodation.

Hmmmm...well tell us the stories later on...
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