I lost both my parents before I was 40, from cancer and a heart attack. My dad died right after my mom was diagnosed with lung cancer! So my mother dealt with chemotherapy and losing her husband! We were angry at dad for smoking and not giving it up. It was also one shock after another for us and my mom. She died a year and a half later. My brother died of cancer last year. We have colon cancer in our family. I am 60, my older brother was 62. My younger brother will be 55. We are doing ok. I felt terrible when my parents and brother died. Take care, Cathy