Well, for me Songbird, it is consistency. I do it for a while (what I need to do, eat right, exercise, etc.) and then poop out. Along comes some chocolate or a well-meaning friend with a dessert to die for, and I'm toast.

What I need is someone to make me accountable. And the diet buddy thing here works a little, but not entirely for me. I lie. But I'm good at it. What?

So what I need is someone who would SEE me and say, "step awayyyy from that piece of cake, pie, _____(you fill in the blank) and physically make me do right.

Why yes, I'm an adult...why do you ask? mahahahah....