When you first began posting the sexual dribble way back when, we all tried to be helpful and were caring and we supported you against your husbands abuse 100%, but you keep coming back with the same crap over and over again, and more than once it sounded to me like it was a made up fantasy you were touting. I'm not as kind as some of the other women here and its about time someone called you out. We are caring women, but we are not stupid women, and some of us remember what was posted by whom, and when. I am retired and still work very hard. I don't intend to waste my senior years obsessing about imaginary or otherwise sexual confrontations. You've pulled this once to many times. I suggest you find a new hobby, one you understand...If there really is a friend in all this, then she is an idiot...