What I would like to know is if this man told her I WANT TO CHOKE YOU, why did she invite him back to her house? You say she's "trying" to stay away from him? TRYING? This man abused her and she's trying?

NL, are you writing a book? Doing a thesis study? You ask why someone would do this, yet you say Golden showers have been practiced by the homosexual community for decades.. Sounds like you've already done your research, but you need more input for whatever you're writing.

Either that, or if this "friend" is real, she needs professional help. Maybe you can help her obtain this?

If someone HITS you, you don't "try" to stop seeing them. This tells me she has no regard for herself or her child

...otherwise, this pervert would not be in her life. If she allows it to continue, who's next? Her child?

I'm curious though. All of your conversations here revolve around sex or men. I'm not saying this is good or bad, its just an observation from reading back over all of your old post.