I am happy to see the comments. Friday we are moving to CA to take of my 84 year old mother. I will miss my 9 grandchildren and have done things to be able to stay in touch easily, but have been tearful because I will miss the daily contact. At the same time I am excited about going home back to CA. Mother has metastasized breast cancer and I will be in on all the appointments. I want to be able to be there for her and hope I am up to it emotionally and spiritually.