there's a great book called The Twenty-Four Hour Day. It's about Alzheimers. I bet it would give you some peace.

A friend of mine runs an Alzheimer's day clinic and her advice is to agree with the patient even though they don't make sense because they don' know any different at the moment. If you try to straighten their story and explain situations for them them won't get it. Their worda are their only recollection even though they make NO sense.

Thistle, you deserve a gold medal!