Mary,

Your thoughts are good and well taken. I am the one who wants to see Korea. Well, I want to see everything.

I strive daily to give Nathan a sense of who he is and yes, I do take my cues from him all the time. Adoptive parents especailly, bi-racial ones, are always searching for information to better help their kids relate to who they are and all the baggage that may come along with adoption.

No parent wants their child to feel "abandoned" or "give Up". I hate that term. So, talking with adult adoptees helps tremendously. All info may not apply but all info is on the path to learning.

Thanks for your help.

Lynn