Lil, you are so loving towards your mother-in-law that I find it hard to believe she treats you the way she does. You have to remember she is ill with a disease that keeps her from controlling what comes out of her mouth. Ouch! Words hurt...and you have been wounded.

I'm praying she comes around and the blue and white quilt comes back out again.

At times she will recall your heart-to-hearts and hopefully treat you with the respect you deserve.

However, I know someone who is trying to make a difference in the life of another family member who is bi-polar and not properly medicated at the moment. It's tough, but she tries to remember this person isn't in their right mind. She attends a support group and has found it very helpful.

Glad you have Raul to snuggle up to!