Lil, your mom in law is a relatively young woman and can fight this with your love and support, which I sense she has, without reservation. I am more sorry about the loss both before and after death, regarding your mom. I know so well the pain of separation and can sense your still open wounds. I will pray that as you help your mother in law to heal, that God helps to heal you of the heart wounds you suffer. Our love and prayers are with you.