Lil, take a deep breath, ask for strength, and quietly and peacefully, you will receive it! [Wink]
Do this often and you will feel so much better.

You will have the strength. It may stink at times, but you will carry on and be a blessing to your mother-in-law who is your dear friend. That is a blessing in itself! [Big Grin]

You will be ready if need be. Wait patiently for all results...