Lynne, just popped in and read your post. I'm so sorry. I lost my mother 2 yrs ago from lung cancer and she also decided not to have any treatment. She wanted to be as active and able to enjoy life as possible for as long as possible. It will be a hard road and if you have the ability to stay with her for this time I would imagine you won't regret it later.

I also sat down and and made a list of every memory I had of my mother, before the disease left me with a lot of memories I knew I wouldn't want to dwell on right away. It helped me.

I will be praying for you.
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