Danita, I don't think you gave up your life to raise your family. You indeed lived your life while raising your kids, and that is something to be very, very proud of. But I do understand what you are saying about finances. I'm interested in the book the Feminine Mistake. Statistics say that women earn less when divorced, men earn more.
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