Dotsie and Celtic, while I totally understand what you are saying, there is no doubt in my mind. I have to ask you, "Is the sun the sun or just my idea of the sun?" "Is that chair you are sitting in real or is it imagined?" "Is the little one standing before you alive, can you touch him or her, do they speak and can you feel their breath if you hold your finger under their nose?"

Ok, I'll not call the sun anything but the sun and my grandchildren anything but living until they no longer live, and my chair IS a chair, no matter what your perception of it is.
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Aarikja Ann