NEWLAF..i wouldnt let lucien rape, pilage, etc....but i would let him do somethings in your "not to do list"....as he wouldn't be harming anyone... wearas rape dose certinlie harm someone (the victum more)and also both parties involved..

even if he did chose to rape....i would forgive him...hopwever i could and most certinly not turn my back on him. Nurture and love him back to a place of understanding that what he did was wrong, in harming another why that hurt is wrong, what he took or how he made that person feel......not simplie place him in a place (hell) and turn my back on him for eternitie....

is that not more of what a corrective parent would do? to use your parent anoligy
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