Yes EagleHeart, he DOES sound like one-in-a-million, that husband of yours...a definite keeper! What a blessing for you. I so agree with Dotsie...if the two of you in the marriage spend your time trying to "out-love" the other, how can power or lack of it be much of an issue?? He who loves the most, has the least power in a relationship, so I guess my husband and I must love fairly equally, as power hasn't come into it in over 6 years of marriage.
As for dishes...that SO makes me smile! One of my pet peeves..(long since let go of),is my husband's propensity for leaving dirty dishes in the sink-one by one- when the dishwasher (empty) is directly next to the sink!! [Roll Eyes] I have NEVER been able to break him of it, so I just move them into the dishwasher like a good dishwasher fairy and go on with life! I guess every silk purse eventually shows it's sow's ear ways, eh?? Blessings, ladies. Sera.