her husband can be away for a week or weeks at a time doing PR or T.V. programmes. When he is their theirs a change in the houshold she their to give him atttension...that post on stress relife got me thinking and maybe she know it too but her helping gives her a spiritual purpise and she recives a lot by giving. At this moment she got a lot of support from those she close to and have helped. The kids are of uni age but one late commer is still quite young so his mates are and need be round the house.

As long as partners are getting adiquite attension then that enough, isent it? unless their a time of crisis then of course they need and deserve more....Its a balance between giving attension to sort out the relashionship which has to be a priority, but not getting lost in it to the point that you give too much away to one person or lost to frends and your own method of support i gess in life it gotta be a balances between diffrent things and loyalties. Its hard to answere in relashion to you becouse their no spacifics...

I rember a bit back your hubbie giving you some ultimatum that the kids had to be gone by start of april. Is that what has been playing on your mind or what your referring to?