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#107337 - 02/11/07 08:55 AM
Do you go nuts cleaning when life gets crazy?
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Please tell me I'm not the only one that does this. It seems like all of a sudden many friends/aquaintances/family members are seriously ill......in the past couple of weeks we've had news of two deaths, two others with terminal illnesses, and I've been helping out one 84-year old neighbor who is declining rapidly. On top of this my doc has started me on meds for cholesterol, I've had a headache and neck pain for days and don't know if it's new workouts at my gym or side effects of the meds....I was cruising along just great and all of a sudden stress seems to be coming at me from every direction. So yesterday I cleaned the entire house -- I was a woman obsessed. Seemed like I couldn't control all this other stuff, but this was something I could control and get organzied. Does anybody else get into cleaning mode when things around you get crazy?
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#107338 - 02/11/07 09:36 AM
Re: Do you go nuts cleaning when life gets crazy?
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Ann, sorry for all your troubles. Yes, I've gone house clean crazy when life's interruptions are above my control. I believe we do this b/c it is something we can control and organize, whereas illnesses we cannot. Also, it is productive and keeps our mind/body occupied during those times when we have no control over situations. Now that your house is clean, perhaps you could take a break from the gym and relax, rejuvinate, and be prepared. My prayers are with you and all those in your heart.
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#107339 - 02/11/07 09:45 AM
Re: Do you go nuts cleaning when life gets crazy?
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Ann,
I too am sorry for your stresses. I am just the opposite. I almost shut down when I'm that stressed. I always wished I would turn into a cleaner...it just hasn't happened.
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#107343 - 02/11/07 05:02 PM
Re: Do you go nuts cleaning when life gets crazy?
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Registered: 01/21/07
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Loc: British Columbia, Canada
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Stress makes me neglectful of household duties.
Well, xstitch, at least you try to do something productive with your stress-coping.
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#107344 - 02/11/07 05:22 PM
Re: Do you go nuts cleaning when life gets crazy?
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Sorry you are under so much stress, but glad you got your cleaning done. Have you asked your doc about the headache and neck pain? It could be from the meds, BUT stress can effect that area quickly and mightily. Gently run your hand along the angle of your shoulder. If your muscles are taut, vs. giving, they are tense. Tense muscles along the neck can present all sorts of problems. It's not hard to find knotted muscles, with practice. One of the things taught in the old chiropractic colleges is a trick with a strand of hair. Place a strand of hair beneath a page of a Bible. Close your eyes and find the strand. Add a page, trying to feel the hair with each addition. Practice adding pages, until the ability to feel sensitive matter becomes second nature. As you're learning, run your hand gently along your leg muscles (or other areas). You will begin to detect your 'knots,' if you haven't been able to before. I use accupressure when I find my knots. Do you have anyone who can give you a deep muscle massage to your shoulders?
I'm another one that shuts down. In fact, the best therapy for me is a dark room with a soft bed and covers to pull over my head.
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#107345 - 02/11/07 10:51 PM
Re: Do you go nuts cleaning when life gets crazy?
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Registered: 10/13/06
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Here's one more vote for shutting down when stressed... Not happy about it, but that's the way I react too.
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#107346 - 02/11/07 11:08 PM
Re: Do you go nuts cleaning when life gets crazy?
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I rarely get stressed, but occassionally get behind in my housework and if my place is untidy, my mind is untidy. Make sense?
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