Hannilore
the negative peson can change but only if they are a lightbulb lol. ...sorry but only if they want too...I do belive people can change more or less anything about themselfs lol i dont hold for the leopard and their spots therie

But if ones leading by example JUST for someone to follow then into change thats more than likly setting up scope for resentment in the future.

Live your life and if its an example for someone then all the better for you and them...

or pay their counselling bill lol

celtic
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"Our attitude either gets in the way or creates a way," Sam Glenn