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#106486 - 02/04/07 05:42 PM
Narcissism
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Do any of you have any dealings with narcissistic elders?
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#106488 - 02/05/07 12:48 PM
Re: Narcissism
[Re: Edelweiss]
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I met narcissim and did not know what it was. Seems like a type of austistic behaviour where the narcissic person thrives and needs others suffering. The more I reacted the more the person went for the jugular It awakened me to this behaviour I realise its a facet in human behaviour but when its dominant its almost evil. I am grateful for my experience it wised me up..Munschusem is a similar facet.Inded it was only by researching Munschusen I saw narcissim explained.That was a eureka moment. Maybe in the elderly it is the breakdown or social norms... Mountain ash
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#106489 - 02/05/07 03:04 PM
Re: Narcissism
[Re: Mountain Ash]
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You know, gimster, I spoke with a woman who dealt with the elderly in her job and she told me that age isn't always a factor but they were usually that way when younger and got away with it. I know my mom is like that and always has been and my dad has been the one who has allowed her to do it. They kind of feed on each other.
Are you having a problem with this?
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#106491 - 02/05/07 08:52 PM
Re: Narcissism
[Re: whittlewoman]
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It was taught to me in sociology that we become "more like ourselves as we age"
Any input on this theory? Mountain ash
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#106493 - 02/05/07 09:11 PM
Re: Narcissism
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Ash, I agree with "becoming more like ourselves when we age". I have several associates who work with the elderly. I asked one, once, "I wonder what I'll be like when I'm my mom's age?" She answered, "You will be yourself now, times three. If you are a happy, fun-loving person, you will be much more so. If you are a crank, you will perfect it." This, of course, is without any health crisis that changes the brain i.e. stroke, dementia. Some heart patients have changes in personality, to some degree. Interesting. The way I am now; I should be organizing the wheel chair races in my assisted living facility in a few years...
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#106495 - 02/06/07 08:20 PM
Re: Narcissism
[Re: Edelweiss]
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dianne, I do believe we're having a problem with it. Nothing we do for parent A is OK with parent B. Parent B always brings things back around to Bself. Besides that point, B is forever trying to share all about B - nonstop - to a degree of making others not wanting to come around. I realize there's not much, if anything, that can be done if B's personality is, as presumed, narcissistic/egocentric (interchangeable to me, even tho, I could be wrong). I've learned to ignore in a polite way, and try to get the subject changed with diverting questions, etc.. Usually works. I was wondering if anyone else saw this in parents, or other elders, they are dealing with or have dealt with. Quote:
Gee, children can be egocentric as well. Hannelore
Funny you should post this. My DH is constantly reminding me parent B should now be handled as a child. I don't agree completely, but sometimes it works.
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