I am safe and living with friends. He, the ex doesnt know where I am and I would like to keep it that way. The kids chose not to go with me, and refused to speak with me when i called. I was thrown out because I told him I cheated on him, which was false. But I knew if something was not done I would never leave,if that makes sense? I would stay in the marriage and be unhappy being dormate and not happy. Truely only going threw the motions.
I havent found an attorney yet. I have not found any I could affaord , the legal Aide attornies wont do anything because there are teen kids involved and the legal Aide folks there wont do anything because I dont live there.
I have been in shelters and knock on wood I wont be back in one. I was grateful to go into one when I needed one. But now that I am safe there is a bed for someone who needs it now the way I did then.

Debi