This topic Lynn329 is one every woman can relate to in one way or another. Mine was never psychically abusive with a fist but he tried mental abuse time and time again....Now about music, when I turn it up all the way in my car and sing along and even bounce around, it is a joy and a stress reliever BUT when someone else turns it up too loud it is just noise and becomes a stress causer. Looks like there really is two sides to every issue. Thanks for being here! [Smile]