LOL! I wasn't old enough to fight about it - if I had been, there wouldn't have been a fight - I would have just gone!! I, too, need lots of space, peace and quiet; but like your husband, sometimes I want to hear it LOUD!! Real loud!! Some music esp. helps me get the 'angry' out - so I blast it - enjoy it - then turn it off. I might not turn music on again for 6 months. It just depends.