I have always been taught by a very smart Grandmother "to pay yourself first." I have always tried to do that and at age 50 took the money and bought my house for cash. At least I know I'll have a roof over my head....

Married a man 7 years my junior but he turned out to be a mooch...so much for that plan....

Dieting cnstantly to approve my appearance to attract one of the men JJ talks about, old, unable too though willing, dead ex wife and no dam kids. Him I'll marry. Oh did I mention he would have to be loaded...Works for me. [Big Grin]