Jennie,

Meredith always shoots straight an it may not be what we want to hear but it is usaully what we need to hear.

In this case, I thinkyou need to hear it.

You state you are grieving, normal reaction to the situation but then you feel sorry for HIM? Because he may not find anyone as nice as you?

He probably won't but that is his life and he made it perfectly clear that it is NOT GOING TO BE YOUR LIFE.

Grieve a bit, lick your wounds and move on. Also look into why you feel sorry for him.

Lynn