If I'm remembering right, isn't there info on deleting your messages and isn't there a warning that if you do, it could clean out the entire thread. Or, did I dream that?

I have my own feelings about her departure, which I will keep to myself. We all make choices and she, for whatever reasons, made the choice to leave and take her messages with her. I'm sorry that her or anyone else is in pain. There are many of us here who are suffering right now and it isn't fun. We just need compassion for each other.